Learn the Successful Dating Tips

Many guys feel shy and awkward at the thought of chatting up a woman. They imagine the embarrassment of being rejected and even laughed at. Sadly this fear of rejection can hold you back from approaching women.
Accepting rejection
Once you learn to accept rejection then you will see it as just one step nearer to finding your perfect date. Chatting up women is a numbers game. The more women you chat up the more confident you'll become, and even though you'll get rejections you will also find some really hot women that will love to date you.
So how do you approach a woman you fancy in a bar, and what do you say to her? The chances are she is feeling just as nervous as you are. Breathe deeply and just go up to her. Don't hesitate as not only will you look nervous, but other guys may get in before you. There is a lot of competition in bars and nightclubs.
If you feel very unsure of yourself you could try catching her eye first. If she holds your gaze for more than a few seconds then this is a good sign. Smiling is an even better sign and you should have no worries about going up to her.
Any single woman in a bar or club may be expecting to get hit on by a guy. If she is with friends don't let this put you off. Chat to her friends as well as this will make you look relaxed and friendly.
Breaking the ice
Breaking the ice can be hard, but if you can think of something funny to say then it will be much easier. Women love a guy who is funny and will find him attractive. Keep the humour light hearted and don't whatever you do make any sexual comments. She may feel threatened by it, and you could scare her off. Read humorous books and find funny chat up lines on the internet that you could use.
For example you could say something like "Are you interested in helping homeless people?" If she says "yes", you could then say "how would you like to take me home then?" Be confident when you say this. Don't be half hearted and say it in a timid and quiet voice. Women are wary of nervous and jittery guys.
Keep it light hearted
If she likes you and conversation starts to flow, keep things light hearted. It's important to maintain eye contact and smile. Women like men who are confident, so looking away or down at your feet will make her think you're unsure and hesitant. Don't stare at her chest. You aren't talking to her breasts!
Take an interest in what she's saying. Listen and make comments. If you feel anxious just breathe deeply as this will get oxygen flowing round your body and make you feel more relaxed, it also releases endorphins which have a calming effect. Feeling nervous can make some guys ramble on about themselves, giving little chance for any woman to get a word in!
Knowing what to say
If you don't know what to say find something to comment on. Is she wearing a necklace or unusual rings? Talk about something going on around you. This will open up a conversation and you can then build on it. For example if you comment on her necklace she may say that she bought it on a holiday in Greece. You could then talk about your own holiday in the same region and then go on to talk about the delicious food and wine available there.
Once you have established some common ground you will find plenty to talk about. If it doesn't work out, don't worry as there are plenty of other women to chat up.
Women are not a strange and exotic species from another planet. We have the same feelings and anxieties as men. Learning takes practice just like anything else, and the more you practice the better and more confident you will become.
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ByTerry L F
Now that you've managed to get the woman you've been after to go on a date with you, how do you make sure that your date goes well? Obviously, some factors are out of your control, but there are ways to make sure that you contribute to your first date being a good time for both of you.
First, choose a location that will make you feel comfortable. For example, if you're nervous and don't enjoy making small talk, dinner may not be a good option. Dinners leave a lot of free time that needs to be filled with talking, and if that's not your strong suit, you might think of something different, like going to a sporting event which allows for some conversation, or even inviting another couple to come with you. Even bowling will give you a chance to talk while also having something to distract you both if the conversation lags.
If you are going to choose to take your date out to dinner, be sure to steer clear of controversial topics like religion and politics. There is nothing that can cause a date to go sour like fighting over opposing viewpoints. Also avoid awkward topics like ex-girlfriends. Don't brag about yourself, either. While you may think it makes you a hero in her eyes, in reality there is nothing more boring than listening to someone goes on and on about how good they are at work, athletics, or anything else. Try to talk about topics that allow you both to contribute to the conversation, as odds are she will appreciate a chance to share, as well, and you will get a chance to show that you can be a good listener.
As the date is getting ready to end, there is always the awkward moment where both of you are wondering if a goodnight kiss is appropriate. Kissing on the first date isn't always appreciated. The quick way to find out if she would like to kiss you is to offer her a goodnight hug. During the hug, if she leans in as if she is expecting a kiss, kiss her. If she doesn't, don't. There is no faster way to ruin a good date than by giving an unwanted kiss. If you do kiss her, make it simple and quick. If she seems to want to kiss longer, than do, but always try to mirror her kissing. Don't try to force the issue of a next date. Call her the next day and thank her for the date, then broach the topic then.
Every guy can do well in a first date with a woman. The question is are you able to keep the conversation going on.
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