ByClaire Geonzon
What is teasing? It's one of the most powerful pick up artist techniques the world has ever known. The key is to make it light-hearted, playful and fun. You should start teasing her right after you come off the opener and there are several ways to do this.
One is what I call 'banter.' This means witty banter, and it's a little hard to explain. It's a back and forth teasing, kind of like fighting but more like verbal foreplay. You see a lot of it on the show Sex and the City. You can learn about it from that show and also from asking female friends.
Using nicknames is part of this banter. Things like Dork, Brat, Munchkin, Princess, Kitten, etc. They're like the baby names old waitresses in diner give you when they say, 'What'll it be, Tiger,' or 'What can I get you, Sunshine.' Use these with girls as part of your teasing and it'll give everything a more playful feeling.
Another part of banter is using frames. Actually, frames are the underlying meaning of banter. In my opinion, frames are much more important than lines. The reason is that frames allow you to inject your own personality into the method. You don't just turn into a clone repeating lines you learned.
If you understand a couple of basic rules about framing, you can create your own material on the fly and you don't have to depend on other people's lines. For example, one good frame for banter is that she's hitting on you. You can get away with this because it's funny.
There are two types of frame control - active and passive. Active means you're actively doing a bunch of things like cutting people, talking over people, telling stories, etc. Passive means that things happen and nobody does anything about them. For example, I say I'm trying to get into a girl's pants and she laughs and says, 'At least you're honest.' If she continues to hang out with me, she's given me passive permission to escalate.
Banter, frames and teasing are all about establishing social comfort. In my method, I emphasize social comfort way more than pick up artist techniques. The reason is that comfort has to be there first before any of those techniques are going to work. You can't build attraction unless she's completely comfortable with what's going on.
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