ByClaire Geonzon
One of the main things that make approaching women hard is that you have to go from being silent and in your head, to suddenly being talkative. It's not so much the fear of the approach as much as it's wondering what you're going to say and how you're going to keep the conversation going.
How do you fix that? You do it by talking to people all the time. Every day, you've got 10 opportunities at the very least to talk to strangers. These are opportunities to have a quick 30-second social comfort conversation. You've got the people you buy lunch from, folks on the bus or train, people who do your laundry, the guys at the grocery store, people you run into in the park, etc.
Here's a great idea for talking to strangers - stop wearing a watch and start asking people for the time. Ask people on the street for directions to places you already know how to get to. The reason you need to do this is that you need to get used to talking to strangers. There's just no way around that.
Approaching people like this is called 'cold approach.' It's pretty crazy if you think about it - walking up to a girl you've never met and trying to start a sexual relationship. It's a little like asking some random dude on the street if you can borrow money from him. It's the toughest way to get laid.
Have conversations with strangers on a daily basis. Become a more talkative, open person. It's really tough for most people at first. I would know; I'm a naturally anti-social person. I'd rather play video games and read comic books. But staying at home and keeping to yourself doesn't get you anywhere, so here I am.
Lots of guys don't realize this but pick-up is a form of self-improvement. The more you change yourself to become a cool, relaxed, confident and social person, the more you'll get girls. It's as easy as that.
One of the easiest changes to make is to get yourself used to talking to strangers. Just like anything else, all it takes is some practice. You approach people and start chatting with them, and it just gets easier. Then, when you're approaching women during the day time to try to pick them up, you're cool and comfortable. It's just like asking somebody for the time.
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