ByClaire Geonzon
Most guys struggle with the conversational part of seducing women. Not all of us can be witty and original. Lots of guys just resign themselves to being lousy conversationalists, but actually conversation is a skill that you can learn. All it takes is some preparation. Here are three ways to prepare so that you'll always be able to keep the conversation going.
What To Talk About
The key to being prepared is knowing your good conversational topics and steering the conversation toward them. For example, I'm good at talking about writing, pop culture, art, creativity, traveling and psychology. Those are the kinds of things that I steer the relationship toward.
You can get prepared by making three lists. One is ten things you like talking about. Everybody's got at least ten things they like to talk about. Don't worry about whether or not they're interesting to women or not. Second, make a list of ten things you want women to know about you. These should be ten different characteristics that you think, 'If a woman knows this about me, she's going to be really into me.' The third list should be a list of things women are into, like fashion, yoga, pop culture, the club scene, etc. If you're clueless about these topics, spend a few hours on Google researching.
Role Playing
Role playing means creating fun fantasies for the girl. Everybody's assigned a role and you act them out. They allow women to get emotionally involved with you with distance and objectivity. There are a million ways to role play and you can learn them on the Internet. The whole point is that they show that you're fun and playful. You're creative and you think outside the box. Role playing sets you apart from typical guys, who usually don't know how to do that.
Relating
Relating is a rapport topic where you play up all the commonalities you have with another person. Whenever you relate something a person says to yourself, you feel more connected with that person. So, whenever possible, relate what she says to yourself. This will create a really good vibe between you and you'll feel more connected.
Conversation is especially important at the social comfort stage of seducing women. This is where you're getting her generally comfortable with you. Once she knows that you're not a creep or weirdo, then you can start building attraction and it will come naturally.
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