Showing posts with label Crazy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Crazy. Show all posts

Three Crazy Things I've Done For Love

ByJulia Austin
In a movie, the crazy thing always works out. The grand gesture gets you the grand love. The love interest reads your grand gesture as ballsy, full of confidence, and knowing what you want. In real life, it can just make you look a little nuts and a little desperate. And maybe even a little irresponsible if that grand gesture cost you a pricey plane ticket or a game of hookey from work.
I would know, because I have done a few crazy things for love. And, well, I'm still single. What have I done?
Karaoke:
What better way to show someone you want the whole world to know that you love them than by letting the whole bar know. It's a start, right? I've signed up to sing at a karaoke bar where I was out with a group of friends, unsuspecting love interest included, with the intention of making it very clear that I was singing to just one person. I don't think all of the singing lessons or voice training in the world could have minimized my horror after putting on that performance and jumping off the stage to be greeted by these words from my love interest: "that was - um - sweet of you."
Gone the distance:
I was once dating someone who ended up moving about a 7-hour drive away. I decided to surprise him by taking off work for a week and driving up there without giving him any advance notice. He was, of course, thrilled to see me on his doorstep. And he was thrilled for the next two days (it was the weekend) to be with me. But, once the work week began, I was just some chick hanging out at his house waiting for him to come home, and stressing him out because he knew I was there waiting for him to come home. Not to mention, we had never lived together in the past. And suddenly, we were thrown into a pseudo living together situation, and found out that we needed our own space very quickly. In the end, the grand gesture didn't make us grow closer. It was the beginning of our relationship's demise.
Written a love letter:
There was a time when these were in fashion. But that was a very, very long time ago. I should have realized that before I tried to translate my feelings into a sonnet, with some far-fetched metaphors and some major hyperbole about just how much the person meant to me. The reader basically gulped in discomfort because, well, it's a little difficult to respond in regular English after you've just been written to in actual Old English.
Julia Austin is a dating columnist who also covers luxury lifestyle and healthy living topics for various publications. Her subject matter ranges from eco-friendly hotels to first date tips and even methods on how to improve one's singing and voice techniques.

How To Attract Men - Make Men Chase You Like Crazy With These Killer Tips

ByTrent Jefferson
Do you want to learn how to attract men? Have you struggled when it comes to attracting men and having them stay with you? If yes, don't worry. You're not the only woman who's had trouble when it comes to attracting men. But you don't have to accept things as they are when you can change them. You can attract any man you want and make him fall in love with you if you are willing to do what it takes.
Here are the killer tips to attract men...
Look attractive - Men are naturally drawn to look at women who look attractive. Physical attraction does not define everything in a relationship. But it does play a part when it comes to making a guy attracted to you. It'll help you get a guy's attention faster than anything else. So make sure that you do all the things you can to make yourself look as beautiful as possible.
Don't wear clothes that show off too much. It'll look like you are trying to get a lot of attention. But at the same time, you must look attractive and wear clothes with the right colors that show you off as a cool woman. You don't have to be a bombshell in order to attract men. In fact, women who look like bombshells fail in relationships despite of the attention they get from men.
Make him approach you - Most women don't realize how hard it is for a man to approach a woman. When the thought of an approach pops into a man's head, he feels all kinds of crazy emotions and fears rejection. The anxiety men feel at the time when they are about to approach a woman is like nothing on the planet.
What if you were challenged to fight someone who's thrice as strong as you and has some serious fighting skills? Imagine that they are hitting you repeatedly in front of a crowd and there's nothing you can do to stop them. You know you're weak and they know you're weak. There's no law enforcement or anyone to protect you. How would you feel in that situation? Wouldn't you feel scared and anxious?
That's how men feel when they are about to approach a woman. They fear getting shot down. So the best thing you can do in this situation is to create opportunities for a man to approach you. Things like smiling at him frequently, going where he's standing and accidentally dropping a kerchief near him while making sure he notices. When he notices that you dropped the kerchief, he'll come behind you and strike up a conversation with COURAGE. Create such opportunities all the time.
Here's How To Make Any Man Obsessed With You - There's an extremely effective ultra rare method which will make any man addicted to you. You'll be able to attract any man and make him completely obsessed with you if you do this right.

How To Be Irresistible To Your Man! This Will Make Him Chase You Around Like Crazy

ByTrent Jefferson
Do you want to be irresistible to your man? Do you want him to feel that you are the best woman in the world? If you feel that your man isn't giving you the attention you deserve and you feel that the relationship might be over, don't despair. You can bring back the lost excitement in your love life. If you are willing to take action and attract him back, your relationship can take a turnaround. You can actually have him chase you around like crazy.
Here are the sure fire ways to be irresistible to your man...
Sensual attraction is a MUST...
I notice a lot of women who tend to neglect their physical attractiveness after a while. When a woman looks good, her man actually feels appreciated and admired. Men may don't admit this to you... But they actually feel good when they know that you are taking the steps to look your best beautiful for them. They always appreciate the fact.
If you've been neglecting your looks, start paying attention to it right now. Never stick to one routine with your looks. Test different colors, different clothes and different styles. The more unpredictable you are with your dressing, the more amazed he is going to be with you. So pay attention to this at all costs. Be as unpredictable as possible.
Take the laid back approach...
Always take the laid back approach for everything. Don't fret over things. If you expect him to call and he doesn't call, do not make a big issue out of it. Just accept it. There's a psychological rule which states: We pursue that which retreats from us.
Humans are naturally drawn to things that they can't get. That's what you need to do with your man. Stop indulging in any desperate or needy behaviors. Do not expect him to shower you with affection and care. Learn to take care of yourself first. And retreat from him as much as possible.
You've already on it before... But if you don't keep doing it, a man will naturally lose attraction for you. That's why you always have to keep him on his toes by constantly retreating. But never be predictable. Always do the unexpected. Use curiosity to get him to come after you instead of you chasing after him.
When you expect him to call and he hasn't called, don't call him up and say "I need to talk to you". Instead call him up and say, "Hey! I was