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How To Attract Girls With Facial Expressions

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ByClaire Geonzon
Body language is really important in learning how to attract girls, and facial expression is a big part of it. If you don't go through acting or theater training, chances are you've never learned how to use your face. I see lots of guys out there delivering funny lines but they don't work because their face isn't saying it too. You can have the best line on the planet and it will get you nowhere if you don't have the right facial expression. It's all about delivery.
I recommend this for my students - go to Wikipedia and find the list they have of 20 emotions. Print this out, get in front of the mirror, and work on each of these emotions until you've got them down perfectly. It may sound odd to do this, but trust me, it works.
There was a quote I read once from a guy named Commander Zap that really sums it up. He said, 'Don't say anything with words that you can say with a look. Don't say anything with a look that you can say with a wink. Don't say anything with a wink you can say with a smile.'
The whole point is that you should use the bare minimum amount of communication to get your point across. That's the essence of body language and it's really powerful. If you have good body language, you're taking a whole lot of noise out of whatever messages your words are delivering. Too much noise obscures the signal.
The key to using all body language effectively is to be straight and relaxed. You should look comfortable in your skin. Your facial expressions should go with what you're saying. For example, when you say something funny, you should be smiling. Don't listen to pick-up teachers who tell you to keep it dry and dead-pan. Use your facial expressions to communicate. That's what they're supposed to do.
Body language is one of the basics of day game along with touching, teasing and talking to strangers. If you have any weak points in any of these areas, you need to perfect them before you start learning pick-up artist techniques and tricks. Even the best lines and techniques aren't going to get you anywhere if these basic fundamentals aren't in place. You learn how to attract girls by starting at the very beginning and perfecting each step before you take the next one.
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How To Attract Girls - Social Comfort Essentials

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ByClaire Geonzon
Before you can start working on how to attract girls, you've got to have a solid foundation of social comfort. Without social comfort, your bold attraction moves may come off as sudden or creepy. Here are some essential points when it comes to social comfort
Tell Real Stories
Talking about yourself works well for social comfort. Tell her real stories from your life and explain how they shaped your behavior. This is called 'grounding' and the point is to give her an idea of what your life was like before you met her. She also learns what type of person you are, what they can expect from us, and what our life experiences have been. You don't want to get too deep; something like the fact that you grew up with sisters is good. You can turn that into something like, 'that's why I always have lots of female friends.'
Be Positive
You've got to keep your positivity up, especially with super-hot girls. Positivity is like the emotional equivalent of having really big muscles. When a girl sees a guy with really big muscles, her primitive brain says, 'That guy's a survivor and he can take care of me.' When a girl meets a really positive guy, it's the same thing because people who are positive can deal with anything.
What you don't want to do is to build rapport by complaining or bitching about things. It just doesn't build the right kind of relationships. Another reason you should stay positive is that when you're positive, it's harder for people to blow you off.
Interactivities And Check-Ins
Only crazy people or homeless people talk in monologue. Instead, you want to periodically check in with her to make sure she's following or relating. People go into 'receive' mode when you talk and you have to check to make sure you're on the same page.
I might say something like, 'You've been in that situation, right?' Or, 'You know what I'm talking about?' These are just very simple things that keep the conversation moving. They also keep the girl from tuning out or becoming uncomfortable listening you to ramble endlessly.
These are just a few techniques in how to attract girls by establishing social comfort. Actually there are lots and lots of strategies, and it's good for you to have your own arsenal to use whenever you need them. It's really important for her to be as comfortable as possible with you before you start building attraction.
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How To Attract Girls Through The Magic of Pacing

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ByClaire Geonzon
There's an important trick in how to attract girls called 'pacing.' This is a social comfort building technique that's very powerful. It allows you to lead the encounter in the direction where you want it to go.
Pacing is an extremely powerful psychological tool. Pacing shows the girl that you understand what's going on in the situation. If you can pace a girl's reality well enough, you can actually become an authority figure to her and start telling her how she should act.
For example, if I'm talking to a girl at a club and I say something that she can agree with, I've now paced the interaction. Let's say it's Friday night at the club and I say, 'You know, it's really great to be out on a Friday night.' If I've paced her well, she'll be thinking, 'That's just what I was going to say.' This is really powerful.
She may not say that or show any indication, but the reaction isn't important. What's important is that she says that inwardly. To her, it's like you read her mind.
The cool thing about pacing is that the more you pace, the easier it'll be. What actually happens is that once she gets the idea that you're reading her thoughts, she'll interpret everything you do as reading her thoughts. She doesn't really think you have ESP, of course, but she'll think it's uncanny how you're on the same wavelength. Then, you get the snowball effect and she'll interpret everything you do that way.
As you pace her, you gain more authority in her eyes. This authority gives you a certain kind of power, and you can use this power later on to draw things in a certain direction. Instead of telling her things that are really true, you can say things that you want to be true. It's like the 'law of attraction.' Those things will start to actually happen.
Pacing is something that starts at the social comfort stage. It's never too early, actually, but it's something that you want to do before you start building attraction. The reason is that it'll make building attraction much easier. When you tell her that you're into her, it'll be just like you saying, 'It's great to be out on a Friday night.' It'll lead her to think that's what she was thinking.
Pacing is important in how to attract girls. Make general statements that she might be thinking and see how it works for you.
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How To Attract Girls To Find A Girlfriend - 5 Key Factors

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ByClaire Geonzon
Once you're committed to getting a girlfriend, it's much easier to learn how to attract girls. The key is to think about what kind of girlfriend you want. You have to get a bit more detailed than just 'hot.' I've got my own five personality factors that I use as criteria.
These are five factors that I've found from my own relationships and experience. These things make a really big difference in determining whether you and the girl are on the same page. If you're looking for compatibility, these things are really important.
Physical Health - Physical health means how she takes care of herself. Is she vegan or vegetarian while you're a meat eater? Is she really into exercise and working out while you're lazy and sloppy? This stuff is extremely important.
Socializing - This is a really big one because it makes a huge difference in a relationship. If you're a homebody and she likes to go out and party, it isn't going to work out. There are some different things to consider here, such as flirting and having friends of the opposite sex. This will lead to jealousy.
Job and Career - It's nice to be on the same page on money matters and career. After all, our careers basically dominate our lives and money problems break up lots of relationships. Plus there's the factor of workaholics vs. people who are kind of lazy. These two don't match.
Emotional Health - This is probably the most important factor because you don't want to be the crazy or emotionally unhealthy person. You also want to be with someone who is normal, rational and predictable. You want to watch out for violent mood swings and crazy behavior.
Likes and Dislikes. This is just a surface factor but it really matters. What you like and don't like are going to be important in your relationship. If you hate Chinese food, you don't want to find yourself eating it three times a week just because your girlfriend loves it.
These are five factors that you should think hard about before you start looking for a girlfriend. Decide what is the perfect type of girl for each of these, along with some flexibility on your part. In other words, how much deviation can you handle? This is really important when you're getting started on how to attract girls looking for a girlfriend.
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How To Attract Men - Make Men Chase You Like Crazy With These Killer Tips

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ByTrent Jefferson
Do you want to learn how to attract men? Have you struggled when it comes to attracting men and having them stay with you? If yes, don't worry. You're not the only woman who's had trouble when it comes to attracting men. But you don't have to accept things as they are when you can change them. You can attract any man you want and make him fall in love with you if you are willing to do what it takes.
Here are the killer tips to attract men...
Look attractive - Men are naturally drawn to look at women who look attractive. Physical attraction does not define everything in a relationship. But it does play a part when it comes to making a guy attracted to you. It'll help you get a guy's attention faster than anything else. So make sure that you do all the things you can to make yourself look as beautiful as possible.
Don't wear clothes that show off too much. It'll look like you are trying to get a lot of attention. But at the same time, you must look attractive and wear clothes with the right colors that show you off as a cool woman. You don't have to be a bombshell in order to attract men. In fact, women who look like bombshells fail in relationships despite of the attention they get from men.
Make him approach you - Most women don't realize how hard it is for a man to approach a woman. When the thought of an approach pops into a man's head, he feels all kinds of crazy emotions and fears rejection. The anxiety men feel at the time when they are about to approach a woman is like nothing on the planet.
What if you were challenged to fight someone who's thrice as strong as you and has some serious fighting skills? Imagine that they are hitting you repeatedly in front of a crowd and there's nothing you can do to stop them. You know you're weak and they know you're weak. There's no law enforcement or anyone to protect you. How would you feel in that situation? Wouldn't you feel scared and anxious?
That's how men feel when they are about to approach a woman. They fear getting shot down. So the best thing you can do in this situation is to create opportunities for a man to approach you. Things like smiling at him frequently, going where he's standing and accidentally dropping a kerchief near him while making sure he notices. When he notices that you dropped the kerchief, he'll come behind you and strike up a conversation with COURAGE. Create such opportunities all the time.
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How To Attract Men - Ultra Effective Tricks To Make Any Man Desire You!

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ByTrent Jefferson
Would you like to learn how to attract men? Do you want to catch and keep Mr. Right? Have you had a hard time when it comes to attracting men in your past relationships? If so, this is the most important page you'll read. You are about to discover the ultra effective tricks that you can use to make any man desire you. If you apply these tricks, any man will fall hopelessly in love with you.
Here are the ultra effective tricks to attract men and make them desire you desperately...
Reinvent yourself...
One of the best things you can do to make guys attracted to you is by reinventing the way you look. Guys are naturally drawn to look at and throw attention at attractive women. If you become that attractive woman, a guy will naturally notice you. If it's a guy you've been flirting with for a while, he will show special attention towards you from now on.
So learn to apply make up the right way that sparks interest. Get a makeover if you have to. Change your hairstyle and the clothes you wear. Surprise them all. Workout at the gym for a month and flaunt your new hot body.
Be more seen...
One of the biggest mistakes that women make which totally screws them when it comes to relationships is that they tend to believe the fact the right guy will come at the right time. If you believe in that fact, let me tell you this: The right guy at the right time will not come. You have to be the right girl that attracts the right guy at the right time i.e. now.
So get out as much as you can. The more men you meet, the greater the chance of you finding the right one. Don't make an excuse that you don't have time for dating now. You pretty well know that it's a lie. Stop lying to yourself and your friends. It's natural to desire a man that's caring, supportive and amazing. The only way you can find these guys is by meeting new guys regularly.
Keep retreating...
Men are natural hunters and I'd like to reveal to you a psychological rule women have been using for years to get men to pursue them. You must apply this golden rule to every area of your life. If you do this with just your boyfriend, it will help you a bit but it won't be effective. Try using this particular rule on all kinds of people in your life especially the various men in your life.
The rule is, "We pursue that which retreats from them". It's natural for people who've been dumped to go behind their exes like crazy. Same thing applies to gamblers who lose money. They keep on pursuing the money because it's something they just LOST when they were close to WINNING it.
Men aren't different from those gamblers. When they realize that they're winning your heart and you surprise them by retreating from them, they will be addicted to you like a magnet. They wouldn't want to lose you completely. So they'll try all things possible in order to win you back.
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How To Attract Women While Avoiding The Dreaded Friends Zone

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ByAden Moore
One of the worst things that can happen to a guy is to be put in the dreaded "friends zone". We've all heard of it before, and many guys have suffered it a time or two. What exactly is the friends zone though? Understanding what this term means and how to avoid being put in the zone will greatly help you learn how to attract women through proper use of seduction techniques.
The overall process for attraction includes a few steps. First you must create interest within the woman you are attracted to. Curiosity is what attraction is really all about. From there you should work on building trust and rapport. Together trust and rapport help to create an emotional connection between the two of you. Once an emotional connection has been made you can escalate attraction into the stages of seduction using sexually charged communication.
So what's the friend zone? The friends zone is a connection established between you and her which lacks the single element crucial for getting her attracted to you. The connection lacks the sexual escalation created from seduction. If you fail to establish a sexual element to your interaction with a woman, she may like you but the "attractiveness" won't be there. Thus you'll be filed away into the friend zone.
So how can you avoid this fate? It's simple: as you interact with her, keeping in mind that curiosity is all attraction really is, allow sexual innuendos into the conversation. This doesn't mean you should blatantly start talking about sex though. Bring it into the conversation casually or jokingly.
An example that works really well is to tease her about something related to sex. Tell her to quit trying to get you in bed, that you're not quite that easy. This role reversal is playful and will make her laugh, plus it adds the idea of sex into the mix.
Another effective trick you can use is to give her a nickname, one with some form of sexual innuendo attached. For instance, if you happen to be chatting to a sexy blonde and you're building a great connection give her the nickname "Dirty Blondie Girl". She will most likely ask why, or ask what it means. That is when you explain to her that you can sense she is thinking dirty thoughts about you, and she's blonde... so it suits! This is fun, will give you something to laugh about, and establishes an original relationship between the both of you that only you two understand. And it provides a touch of sexuality to the conversation.
Simple things such as bringing sex into her imagination will allow her to see you as a sexual person. This doesn't mean she will view you as a pervert, so don't become confused between the two. Rather, she will see you as more than just a friend and you will actually have a chance at moving your fresh relationship to places beyond just being friends. When you begin to move into seduction she will be much more open to the topic and idea of sexual relations with you, allowing you to avoid being put into the friends zone.
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The Secrets of How to Attract Hot Women: Body Language Basics and Seduction

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ByMike N Burns
Fact: Body Language is in constant communication with those around you.
Well over 50% of your communication is in the form of non-verbal as opposed to about 8% coming what you actually do say.
With that in mind, how aware are you of the major part of what you're putting out there? It's a very easy thing to not only overlook but to be completely unaware of.
We've all heard the saying: "It's not so much WHAT you say, but HOW you say it."
For instance, it's much more difficult to judge a person via text messaging or online but very easy to misinterpret someone as well. Why? It's because we don't have those all important non-verbal cues that we subconsciously rely on every minute.
You might have all the game in the world online but your body language isn't part of the equation in that world. Take the same words out into the real world without an awareness of the non-verbal cues you're sending and you just might crash and burn.
Body Language is extremely important in order to sexually attract women. There is an equally important aspect of Body Language as it regards what SHE'S putting out, but for today's article, we're focusing on YOUR Body Language.
The Basics:
1.) Smile!
Easy to forget this one! Salespersons will tell you what you instinctively know. A smile disarms people and puts them at least somewhat at ease. It tells people on a sub-conscious level that you're okay.
What you want to project is that you're a happy, confident man enjoying her company. It works. Try this out for yourself. Start smiling at random people during the day. Not a cheesy smile but a genuine one. People usually smile back.
2.) Eye Contact
"Hey, I'm up here buddy!" For god's sake don't stare at her chest. You really need to work on this one. When she catches you doing it, you have just become another of the drooling pigs that she encounters each and every day. Don't do it to yourself.
Maintain the eye contact in conversation. Not too heavy. Don't stare, it's intimidating. Nod. Smile. Be engaged! Eye contact can make very lasting impressions on people in any situation. The eyes are the windows to the soul. Keep that in mind.
Just keep a rough 70% rule in mind. That's about the optimum amount of time in a conversation for eye contact.
Anyone ever tried "speed dating"? Check this out. There is a type of speed dating that's catching on. No words; just looking into each other's eyes. What'll they think of next?
3.) Sit Up Straight!
No. I'm not channeling your Sainted Mother. It's just solid advice. As a guy you can get away with a tiny slouch, but be aware of it. A straight upright stance projects good things.
Look at any successful film actor. Good posture is all a part of presence. Do you think proper posture wasn't part of their training? Believe it. It projects health and well-being.
Not to mention what dear old mom said, "It's good for you."
4.) Gesture with OPEN palms.
It projects friendliness. Do you know the reason for the handshake that developed thousands of years ago? Its purpose was to show that we held no weapon. Non-Verbal communication at it's most basic.
This piece of advice you won't get anywhere else.
When the open palm gesture is combined with some other subliminal seduction techniques, it can really be a winning combination (studies show that the open palm gesture can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of a speeding ticket).
How's that for news you can use?
So in conclusion, when speaking with a girl and trying to make a point that puts a good light on you, or even to defend yourself (for example she thinks your just running your "usual game".) Keep your arms in front of you with palms up.
It works on a sub-conscious level to project honesty. Use these simple secrets of attraction with a smile for it to work effectively.
Ok... So, I'll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of this article (if you would like more information about body language: How to Sexually Attract Women
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How To Attract Men - Rock Solid Ways To Make A Man Attracted To You! Don't Miss This At Any Cost

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ByTrent Jefferson
Are you interested in learning how to attract men? Have you had trouble when it comes to making men attracted to you? Is your current relationship in some sort of a crisis situation? If so, don't worry. You are about to discover rock solid ways that you can use to make any man attracted to you.
With these tips, you can turnaround any relationship that's about to be ruined. If you're single now, you can attract a really hot guy and make him fall in love with you. It's possible. You just need to believe and act with faith.
Here are rock solid ways to attract men and make them come after you like dogs...
Start going out more often - The best way a woman can get other men attracted to her is by going out more often. Even though this seems to be quite simple, the problem is that very few women really do it. They never get out often. They just believe that the right guy will come around at the right time. It doesn't happen that way.
The more men you meet, the more you are likely to meet the right one. When you are social, you'll be aware of whether guys are paying attention to you or not. If they aren't paying any attention towards you, you might have to change a few aspects about yourself (maybe a bit more make up or a different set of clothes or the way you flirt). When you're in the field, you'll know what's really happening.
Even if you're in a relationship right now and you feel it's about to be ruined, don't despair. The best thing you can do is to give some space between the two of you. When there's space, all kinds of conflict disappear with time. So go out and meet other men. Don't have affairs with them. Just go out with your friends, flirt with guys and enjoy. Let your guy also do the same. Create some space in the relationship.
Learn to communicate the right way with men - Do you know that the language men speak and the language women speak is quite different? Well... that's why in some situations you feel that he doesn't really understand you and you truly believe that you are being rational. The same goes for the guy as well. Being able to communicate the right way with a man is the most vital skill a woman can have.
I've studied and talked to plenty of women who have stupendous success with their man. Well... they all have one thing in common - They know how to communicate in the right manner with a man. Men see things differently and women see things differently. If you really want to have more power and control over him, you'll have to know how he sees the world.
When you know what he thinks of himself and how he perceives his reality, you'll be able to push his buttons as you wish. You'll be able to make the man do what you please whenever you want it. Women can do this naturally if you are willing to apply it.
But you don't really get an accurate understanding of a man's perspective in just one day. I recommend that you spend time thinking off what it's like to be him and ask him questions. Sit alone and meditate on being him and look at what he wants. Validate your answers by asking the guy. As you continually do it, you will begin to nail things. That's when you'll start to have really AMAZING success with men.
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Dating Beautiful Women - How to Attract Women Out of Your League

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ByChris Tyler

It's natural for a guy to want to date beautiful women. After all, we are driven by our eyes when it comes to the women that we are attracted to. What can be frustrating for a lot of men is the fact that they probably will never really get the opportunity to date those beautiful women that they cannot seem to be able to take their eyes off of. If you think it would be like a dream come true to date beautiful women who are out of your league, then keep reading.

The first thing that I would like to encourage you to do is to stop thinking of certain women as being out of your league. That's basically telling your subconscious mind to always think negatively when it comes to the women that you can attract and date and why do that to yourself if you don't have to? Not only that, I would also suggest that you begin to explore the reasons why you think that some women are too good for you.

Here are some tips on how to attract women out of your league that I hope you find helpful:

1) Beautiful women are just like every other woman in most ways, they just look prettier.

This is something that is mostly true. There are some things about beautiful women that are going to be different, but on the whole, they are like other women they just come in a prettier package. So, really, there is no reason to think that you have less of a chance with a good looking girl than you do with an average looking one.

2) The reason why you think that they are out of your league is due to your inexperience with them.

I find that most guys who think of good looking women as being out of their league don't have that much experience being around attractive women. If you did have that experience, then you would not feel like they were out of your reach. So, you may want to gain some experience just being around them.

3) You are going to have to be secure when you go out with them.

Here is what is going to happen when you go out on a date with a good looking woman. Other guys are going to check her out. And they might even flirt with her right in front of you. She is going to pay some attention to how you handle that and you want to handle it well.

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How To Instantly Attract Beautiful Women With Hardly Any Effort

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ByAden Moore

Most guys will never fully understand the process of attracting women. Typically, a man believes he must be the most charming, handsome, and wealthy man in order to attract a beautiful woman. This, however, is a large misunderstanding.

Women do not truly desire these things, but rather desire what these aspects represent in a man on a more underlying level. Allow me to explain: women don't care about "charm" but rather the self-control that creates charm in a man. Women don't care about appearance but rather how a man carries himself, both in cleanliness and self-confidence. Women also don't care about how wealthy a man is but rather the security and comfort that a man can provide. You can provide security without being the most wealthy man around, and that's all a woman really desires.

So how can any man attract beautiful women without putting forth much effort? Here are two elements you must focus on if you want to accomplish true attraction with any woman of your dreams:

First: Improve your confidence in yourself. The one thing that will turn a woman off faster than a cheesy pickup line is low self belief in a man. If you are not confident in your appearance, your level of attractiveness, or your ability to interest a woman she will pick up on it. This inadequacy will tell her that you do not believe in yourself so she shouldn't either.

Second: Don't worry about your outcome with a beautiful woman. Too many men freeze up and ruin their chances before they ever start because they are worried about rejection. On the flip side, many men sabotage their efforts by acting too interested in her because they want her so bad. If you have these thoughts in your mind you will express them clearly to her in your body language. Either you will act as if you are not sure of yourself or you will come across as needy.

The key to overcoming this is being indifferent to the outcome. Just have fun in your learning of how to attract women and you'll come off as an easy-going and confident guy.

Also, rather than worrying so much about what to say to a woman, focus more on how you carry yourself. Body language communicates much more about your true qualities than the words you choose. Asking simple questions about her and being more of a listener with good body language will help you score much more often and without having to work so hard.

Focusing on these two key attraction points will greatly enhance your chances of attracting hot women without putting forth much effort.

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How To Attract Girls With A Direct Opener - Body Language

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ByClaire Geonzon

When you're working on how to attract girls with a direct opener, body language is just as important as anything your mouth is saying. When you're using a direct opener, you should have a little bit more powerful body language. Make sure you're standing straight, your shoulders are back, and your head is up.

Keep It Slow And Steady

You also want to make sure that you move slowly. The thing you should be trying to convey is confidence, power and self-assuredness. You want to appear comfortable and totally in control. Slow movements show that you're sure of yourself. You don't want to appear hyper and jumpy. Slow movements show that you're being driven by your desire for her. You're being driven by an uncontrollable urge.

Approach Her Straight On

With a direct approach, you want to come up to her straight on. You don't want to come up on the side or over the shoulder. The point is not to jump out and surprise her. Coming to her straight on is another thing that shows your confidence and self-assuredness.

It's alright to approach her behind by tapping her on the shoulder. This is also a direct approach. Just make sure that if you do the shoulder tap, it also conveys your calm, slow, and powerful stride.

The Confident Approach

Here's a way to look at it - imagine that you're approaching her for yourself and not for her. You don't want to get her into bed or get her phone number; you're approaching her because you just think she's incredible. You just know you wouldn't be able to sleep at night if you didn't.

In other words, you're the type of guy who goes after what he wants. Your body language should show this as well. You should smile and deliver your words slowly. These body language hints convey much more to her than what you say.

Try this: walk up to the girl straight on with slow and confident movements. When you reach her and she's looking at you, take a second or two before you deliver your line, 'Hey, I know this is really random but I just saw you from across the room and I had to come over here and meet you, or else I'd be kicking myself for the rest of the day.' This is a really powerful method that's highly effective in how to attract girls.

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Hot To Attract Girls - The Psychology Of Hotness

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ByClaire Geonzon

When you're learning how to attract girls that are nines and tens, you have to do things a little bit differently. They have the psychology of hotness - all their lives people have been interested in them. They've seen and heard everything. The game is the same, but there are a few rules that are just a little bit different.

Broken Frames

One of the crazy things nines and tens will do is that they'll break your frames. Sexual framing techniques work great with girls that are pretty or cute, but they don't work so well for the ultra-hot. They may work sometimes, but hot girls will break them.

For example, if you say, 'I can tell that you're an independent girl,' a regular girl who's cute or pretty but lacks sexual confidence will answer, 'Oh yeah, I am independent.'

Nines and tens will snap the frame into pieces. They'll say something like, 'I don't know. I depend a lot on my family.' The reason they'll do this is because they always have people telling them about themselves, trying to manipulate them and so on. A nine or ten has had lots of guys do that just to get them in bed.

The Qualifying Challenge

Hot girls also don't qualify themselves as much as other women. When you try to qualify them, they'll just refuse to answer. I've had a hot girl say to me, 'I'm not really going to answer that question.' When I pointed out how unfriendly that was, she said, 'I don't have to explain myself to anyone.' Again, they're used to that.

When you qualify really hot girls, you've got to do it subtly using push backs. It's like Bugs Bunny's reverse psychology tricks. Tell her, 'I'll be you're really dependent and needy in relationships.' She'll break it by saying, 'No way, I'm independent.'

Keep It Ambiguous And Cool

With nines and tens, don't over-commit. This is what lots of guys do and it's a huge mistake. Instead, keep her guessing. Have her swinging from validation to de-validation, never know where she's at with you. Wait until she's definitely showing attracting and it's really on before you show any commitment. Until then, keep it ambiguous.

You can easily learn how to attract girls that are on the ultra-hot end of the scale; just change up your game a little bit and practice. It's well worth it when you finally take one home.

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