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How To Get Laid - 3 Social Comfort Tips

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ByClaire Geonzon
Social comfort is essential if you want to know how to get laid. Before you can start laying on the attraction, she needs to be comfortable around you and see you as a non-threat. Here are 3 simple tips for getting her comfortable.
Observe Well
It's all about the skill of observation. This is a great skill to have for any social situation. It's not hard at all to learn. You can get thoughts, ideas and intuitions about people if you pay attention, and then you start blurting them out. Most people are pretty observant, but they don't get this point. It's like you have to take the filter off your mouth. Don't even think before you speak - just let it out.
Make Regional References
Knowing and being able to talk about anything regional is great. If you can talk about nightclubs, sporting events, new openings, restaurants, food, music or anything else that's local, you've got all kinds of great social comfort conversations available to you. Make sure you're up-to-date about what's going on in your city.
You can do this by snagging some free local papers and just sort of keeping abreast. If you live in any major city you can check out Thrillist (www.thrillist.com). They have all the major cities covered. It gives you a good sense of what's going on.
Talk About Yourself
Most people feel uncomfortable speaking about themselves. They feel like if they do that, they're going to come off as narcissistic, egotistical or bragging. They tend to believe that people don't want to know about them. Why would they care? But actually, when we talk to strangers the topic of ourselves needs to come out early.
This is because of the idea of reciprocity. A stranger (including a woman you're into) isn't going to volunteer a lot of information about themselves if you don't do it first. You need to have good back and forth information going.
The key to doing this is to stop being afraid that people aren't going to like you. While it's true that they may not, at least give them a choice first. If you talk about yourself, they might be interested. If you don't, you'll never know. There are lots of opportunities there.
Just remember that social comfort is not about how to get laid. During that phase, you're just being social with her. Once that's established, then you can start escalating and building attraction.
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How To Pick Up Beautiful Women - It Starts With Social Comfort

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ByClaire Geonzon
Social comfort basically means that the girl you're talking to is comfortable. You're not weird or creepy and she doesn't feel like all you're doing is hitting on her. It's really important if you want to pick up beautiful women to get them comfortable with you before you start working on attraction. Here are some ways to do it.
Use Her Name
It's really true that people love the sound of their own names. This is especially true of friends of the girls you're hitting on. If you're in a group it's actually almost more important to remember everybody else's name than her name. If you forget her name, you can kind of make that work for you because you can pretend you don't care that much about her. But forgetting a friend's name is deadly.
Hooks And Open Loops
Hooks and loops build investment by bating women into asking questions. A hook is a built-in conversational thread that's used to 'hook' the girl's attention. I might say, 'I'm totally in the wrong business because...' The hook here is the idea that I'm in the wrong business, because she's going to want to know what kind of business I'm in.
An open loop is an unfinished thought. These are really powerful because human beings naturally want resolution. We hate when things are uncertain and we don't know what's going to happen. By opening a thread, you make her more curious and interested in what you're going to say.
You shouldn't overuse hooks and open loops or it'll be too obvious, but these are great tools to have in your social comfort repertoire. When you throw a hook, it's also a good way to see if she's interested. If she doesn't take it, that tells you she's not.
Current Events
Current events make an awesome conversation topic, so you should be up-to-date on what's going on in the world. Start regionally and then work your way to bigger things. Focus especially on what's happening in the girl-relevant world like pop culture, fashion, movies, TV shows, celebrities, yoga, exercise crazes, etc. You probably don't want to talk religion or politics.
These social comfort strategies are really important if you want to pick up beautiful women. The important thing is to be observant so that you can tell when she's comfortable with you and how she's responding. Then, you can start laying on your attraction game.
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How To Attract Girls - Social Comfort Essentials

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ByClaire Geonzon
Before you can start working on how to attract girls, you've got to have a solid foundation of social comfort. Without social comfort, your bold attraction moves may come off as sudden or creepy. Here are some essential points when it comes to social comfort
Tell Real Stories
Talking about yourself works well for social comfort. Tell her real stories from your life and explain how they shaped your behavior. This is called 'grounding' and the point is to give her an idea of what your life was like before you met her. She also learns what type of person you are, what they can expect from us, and what our life experiences have been. You don't want to get too deep; something like the fact that you grew up with sisters is good. You can turn that into something like, 'that's why I always have lots of female friends.'
Be Positive
You've got to keep your positivity up, especially with super-hot girls. Positivity is like the emotional equivalent of having really big muscles. When a girl sees a guy with really big muscles, her primitive brain says, 'That guy's a survivor and he can take care of me.' When a girl meets a really positive guy, it's the same thing because people who are positive can deal with anything.
What you don't want to do is to build rapport by complaining or bitching about things. It just doesn't build the right kind of relationships. Another reason you should stay positive is that when you're positive, it's harder for people to blow you off.
Interactivities And Check-Ins
Only crazy people or homeless people talk in monologue. Instead, you want to periodically check in with her to make sure she's following or relating. People go into 'receive' mode when you talk and you have to check to make sure you're on the same page.
I might say something like, 'You've been in that situation, right?' Or, 'You know what I'm talking about?' These are just very simple things that keep the conversation moving. They also keep the girl from tuning out or becoming uncomfortable listening you to ramble endlessly.
These are just a few techniques in how to attract girls by establishing social comfort. Actually there are lots and lots of strategies, and it's good for you to have your own arsenal to use whenever you need them. It's really important for her to be as comfortable as possible with you before you start building attraction.
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