ByClaire Geonzon
Social comfort basically means that the girl you're talking to is comfortable. You're not weird or creepy and she doesn't feel like all you're doing is hitting on her. It's really important if you want to pick up beautiful women to get them comfortable with you before you start working on attraction. Here are some ways to do it.
Use Her Name
It's really true that people love the sound of their own names. This is especially true of friends of the girls you're hitting on. If you're in a group it's actually almost more important to remember everybody else's name than her name. If you forget her name, you can kind of make that work for you because you can pretend you don't care that much about her. But forgetting a friend's name is deadly.
Hooks And Open Loops
Hooks and loops build investment by bating women into asking questions. A hook is a built-in conversational thread that's used to 'hook' the girl's attention. I might say, 'I'm totally in the wrong business because...' The hook here is the idea that I'm in the wrong business, because she's going to want to know what kind of business I'm in.
An open loop is an unfinished thought. These are really powerful because human beings naturally want resolution. We hate when things are uncertain and we don't know what's going to happen. By opening a thread, you make her more curious and interested in what you're going to say.
You shouldn't overuse hooks and open loops or it'll be too obvious, but these are great tools to have in your social comfort repertoire. When you throw a hook, it's also a good way to see if she's interested. If she doesn't take it, that tells you she's not.
Current Events
Current events make an awesome conversation topic, so you should be up-to-date on what's going on in the world. Start regionally and then work your way to bigger things. Focus especially on what's happening in the girl-relevant world like pop culture, fashion, movies, TV shows, celebrities, yoga, exercise crazes, etc. You probably don't want to talk religion or politics.
These social comfort strategies are really important if you want to pick up beautiful women. The important thing is to be observant so that you can tell when she's comfortable with you and how she's responding. Then, you can start laying on your attraction game.
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