ByClaire Geonzon
When you're talking about how to get laid, I don't recommend sleeping with the girl on a first date. It might sound weird coming from me because I'm always talking about one-night stands, but you really want to get from Point A to Point B naturally. You don't want to risk too much when you want to get a girlfriend. When you're dating before sex, there are five things you want to have.
1. A perfect first date
2. Comfortable phone follow-up
3. Comfortable physical escalation
4. Follow-up dates
5. Escalation into sex that's smooth, normal and natural
The point is that you don't want things to be awkward. You don't want to be too aggressive and push things because when you find a girl you really like and you go on a couple of dates, you've invested something in it. You don't want to lose it.
After sex, you still have to keep it interesting. A lot of guys mess up because instead of continuing what they were doing after sex, which was working, they revert to being boring. They forget all the player stuff and get weird, awkward and dull. In order to make everything comfortable after sex, you have to make sure the experience is as good as possible. You shouldn't treat her any differently.
If you're texting her every day before you sleep with her, don't start trying to play hard to get. On the other hand, don't start texting all the time because you'll look weird and needy. Keep it the same until you've been dating for about a month, and then move it forward by talking to her.
It really takes about three months before she'll be officially your girlfriend, but you can do it in as little as a month if you can follow the steps correctly. But on the other hand, it's not a good idea to commit to a girl you've known for less than a month. You should make sure that you've known her at least four weeks.
The ideal situation is for her to bring things up. The ironic thing is that when you're interested in dating and having fun, girls are much more likely to want to have 'the talk' to figure out where things stand. However, it doesn't always happen so you should be prepared. Know what kind of timeline you're on. Just like anything else, set goals and decide when it's time to have the talk. There's much more to it than just learning how to get laid.
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