Learn the Successful Dating Tips

ByMike N Burns
Fact: Body Language is in constant communication with those around you.
Well over 50% of your communication is in the form of non-verbal as opposed to about 8% coming what you actually do say.
With that in mind, how aware are you of the major part of what you're putting out there? It's a very easy thing to not only overlook but to be completely unaware of.
We've all heard the saying: "It's not so much WHAT you say, but HOW you say it."
For instance, it's much more difficult to judge a person via text messaging or online but very easy to misinterpret someone as well. Why? It's because we don't have those all important non-verbal cues that we subconsciously rely on every minute.
You might have all the game in the world online but your body language isn't part of the equation in that world. Take the same words out into the real world without an awareness of the non-verbal cues you're sending and you just might crash and burn.
Body Language is extremely important in order to sexually attract women. There is an equally important aspect of Body Language as it regards what SHE'S putting out, but for today's article, we're focusing on YOUR Body Language.
The Basics:
1.) Smile!
Easy to forget this one! Salespersons will tell you what you instinctively know. A smile disarms people and puts them at least somewhat at ease. It tells people on a sub-conscious level that you're okay.
What you want to project is that you're a happy, confident man enjoying her company. It works. Try this out for yourself. Start smiling at random people during the day. Not a cheesy smile but a genuine one. People usually smile back.
2.) Eye Contact
"Hey, I'm up here buddy!" For god's sake don't stare at her chest. You really need to work on this one. When she catches you doing it, you have just become another of the drooling pigs that she encounters each and every day. Don't do it to yourself.
Maintain the eye contact in conversation. Not too heavy. Don't stare, it's intimidating. Nod. Smile. Be engaged! Eye contact can make very lasting impressions on people in any situation. The eyes are the windows to the soul. Keep that in mind.
Just keep a rough 70% rule in mind. That's about the optimum amount of time in a conversation for eye contact.
Anyone ever tried "speed dating"? Check this out. There is a type of speed dating that's catching on. No words; just looking into each other's eyes. What'll they think of next?
3.) Sit Up Straight!
No. I'm not channeling your Sainted Mother. It's just solid advice. As a guy you can get away with a tiny slouch, but be aware of it. A straight upright stance projects good things.
Look at any successful film actor. Good posture is all a part of presence. Do you think proper posture wasn't part of their training? Believe it. It projects health and well-being.
Not to mention what dear old mom said, "It's good for you."
4.) Gesture with OPEN palms.
It projects friendliness. Do you know the reason for the handshake that developed thousands of years ago? Its purpose was to show that we held no weapon. Non-Verbal communication at it's most basic.
This piece of advice you won't get anywhere else.
When the open palm gesture is combined with some other subliminal seduction techniques, it can really be a winning combination (studies show that the open palm gesture can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of a speeding ticket).
How's that for news you can use?
So in conclusion, when speaking with a girl and trying to make a point that puts a good light on you, or even to defend yourself (for example she thinks your just running your "usual game".) Keep your arms in front of you with palms up.
It works on a sub-conscious level to project honesty. Use these simple secrets of attraction with a smile for it to work effectively.
Ok... So, I'll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of this article (if you would like more information about body language: How to Sexually Attract Women
For another informative article on the topic: secrets of attraction

ByTrent Jefferson
If you want to make a guy like you and have him irresistibly attracted to you, read on. It doesn't matter if you've had bad relationships with men in the past. Let the dead bury the dead. You can now transform yourself into a truly mind blowing woman who naturally creates undeniable attraction in men.
There are some women in this world who attract men almost effortlessly. Well... our society calls them naturals. They naturally know what it takes to attract a man and use it to attract them. They've become naturals purely because of the programming they had when they were children. It could be their parents or friends or their social circle that made them what they are now.
You can become such a woman as well. It's possible for any woman to create undeniable attraction in a man if she triggers the attraction switches in a guy. Men have attraction triggers that are naturally triggered when a woman does something. At the same time, there are also repulsion switches that will make him lose attraction for you when you do something.
If you are struggling to attract and keep men in your life, it's likely because you have triggered the repulsion switches in men. You just have to learn what these trigger switches are and use them properly in your dating life. Your life will transform once you begin to apply these secrets.
Here are the surefire secrets to create undeniable attraction in men...
Exhibit high level of confidence...
Confidence is absolutely vital if you want to create undeniable attraction in a man. It will not only help your dating life but it will help your career as well. The more confident you are, the more willing you'll be able to take risks. The more risks you take, the more you'll fail. The more you fail, the more you get closer to success. You have to develop that confidence in you that everything's going to work out for the best.
Be courageous and don't sink back. Without any confidence in your life, you won't even be able to last in this world. It is a vital trait that I strongly believe every single person on the planet must have. Be daring and always make the most courageous choice. Be willing to plunge ahead while exhibiting coolness all the way through. If you want to start a conversation with a guy, go over and start it. Don't hesitate. Feel free to speak up boldly.
Control your fear of loss mechanism...
The fear of loss mechanism is one of the reasons plenty of women fail to be successful with men in their relationships. They can effortlessly attract men. But once they start the relationship, the guy seems to lose interest in them. Well... the responsibility for the loss of attraction lies with the woman.
The fear of loss mechanism triggers all kinds of negative repulsive behavior in a woman and makes a man lose attraction for her. If you've been desperate and called a man plenty of times, it's the fear of loss mechanism at work. Have you nagged or criticized a man for the things he did or didn't do? Well... it's the fear of loss mechanism again.
Humans we have a tendency to keep what they already have rather than get something else even if it were better. This is the reason why some people stick to the same codependent relationship even if it isn't doing them any good. This mechanism can also be called as possessiveness. It kills attraction and you must control it. Do not let this emotion get in your head. Always make the laid back choice and you'll make any guy chase you around like crazy.
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