Learn the Successful Dating Tips

ByChris Tyler

It's natural for a guy to want to date beautiful women. After all, we are driven by our eyes when it comes to the women that we are attracted to. What can be frustrating for a lot of men is the fact that they probably will never really get the opportunity to date those beautiful women that they cannot seem to be able to take their eyes off of. If you think it would be like a dream come true to date beautiful women who are out of your league, then keep reading.

The first thing that I would like to encourage you to do is to stop thinking of certain women as being out of your league. That's basically telling your subconscious mind to always think negatively when it comes to the women that you can attract and date and why do that to yourself if you don't have to? Not only that, I would also suggest that you begin to explore the reasons why you think that some women are too good for you.

Here are some tips on how to attract women out of your league that I hope you find helpful:

1) Beautiful women are just like every other woman in most ways, they just look prettier.

This is something that is mostly true. There are some things about beautiful women that are going to be different, but on the whole, they are like other women they just come in a prettier package. So, really, there is no reason to think that you have less of a chance with a good looking girl than you do with an average looking one.

2) The reason why you think that they are out of your league is due to your inexperience with them.

I find that most guys who think of good looking women as being out of their league don't have that much experience being around attractive women. If you did have that experience, then you would not feel like they were out of your reach. So, you may want to gain some experience just being around them.

3) You are going to have to be secure when you go out with them.

Here is what is going to happen when you go out on a date with a good looking woman. Other guys are going to check her out. And they might even flirt with her right in front of you. She is going to pay some attention to how you handle that and you want to handle it well.

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ByClaire Geonzon

We all want to take home the nines and tens at the club, but few succeed. The reason is that when approaching women who are ultra-hot, your game has to be ultra-tight. They get hit on left and right, so you have to make sure you don't slip up. One of the ultimate problems with approaching women of this caliber is simply the shock of being so close to that much hotness.

I'm talking about your voice cracking, your inability to maintain contact, and your general shakiness in the face of that much beauty. It's just a fact of nature that no matter how successful you are with women, ultra-hotness has a physical effect on you.

You And Your Loss Aversion

This is a problem of exposure and it's happened to all of us. Even after hundreds of lays, you'll still find yourself trembling when you're face to face with a girl like that. You get tongue tide, the words don't come out, your voice goes up an octave, etc. You just want to get out of there.

The reason this happens is what's called 'loss aversion.' You're psychologically designed to fear loss more than to enjoy the game. When you first approach super-hot women, your mind is full of excuses why it's totally impossible she's going to like you. You're not super-handsome, you're not rich, you're not good at approaching them, or whatever.

Toss The Safety Blanket

The best way to get rid of this fear is to approach lots of hot women and to fail each time. Your body fears the worst thing that can happen - getting shot down. But after you get shot down, you realize it doesn't matter. She's a nine or maybe a ten; it's almost natural that she'd shoot you down! And you didn't lose anything at all by it.

Most people don't realize that nines and tens are usually the kindest women on earth. They almost never burn you hard. The worst thing they'll do is ignore you and move on. By trying and failing with them, you're removing your excuses, which you're carrying around like a safety blanket. When you get exposure, you toss those fears aside and it gets a lot easier.

Approaching women that are out of your league helps you to realize that they're not out of your league at all. It just takes a good game to get nines and tens, and practice makes perfect.

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