ByClaire Geonzon
We all want to take home the nines and tens at the club, but few succeed. The reason is that when approaching women who are ultra-hot, your game has to be ultra-tight. They get hit on left and right, so you have to make sure you don't slip up. One of the ultimate problems with approaching women of this caliber is simply the shock of being so close to that much hotness.
I'm talking about your voice cracking, your inability to maintain contact, and your general shakiness in the face of that much beauty. It's just a fact of nature that no matter how successful you are with women, ultra-hotness has a physical effect on you.
You And Your Loss Aversion
This is a problem of exposure and it's happened to all of us. Even after hundreds of lays, you'll still find yourself trembling when you're face to face with a girl like that. You get tongue tide, the words don't come out, your voice goes up an octave, etc. You just want to get out of there.
The reason this happens is what's called 'loss aversion.' You're psychologically designed to fear loss more than to enjoy the game. When you first approach super-hot women, your mind is full of excuses why it's totally impossible she's going to like you. You're not super-handsome, you're not rich, you're not good at approaching them, or whatever.
Toss The Safety Blanket
The best way to get rid of this fear is to approach lots of hot women and to fail each time. Your body fears the worst thing that can happen - getting shot down. But after you get shot down, you realize it doesn't matter. She's a nine or maybe a ten; it's almost natural that she'd shoot you down! And you didn't lose anything at all by it.
Most people don't realize that nines and tens are usually the kindest women on earth. They almost never burn you hard. The worst thing they'll do is ignore you and move on. By trying and failing with them, you're removing your excuses, which you're carrying around like a safety blanket. When you get exposure, you toss those fears aside and it gets a lot easier.
Approaching women that are out of your league helps you to realize that they're not out of your league at all. It just takes a good game to get nines and tens, and practice makes perfect.
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