ByBrook Green
Many guys ask every day, "How do I get of the friend zone?" Okay, if you are in the friend zone, then the girl is feeling exactly the same way, or she is not romantically interested in you at all. If you want out of the friend zone, you will have change the way she sees you. The most important thing is to never tell her how you feel, at least not until she feels the same way about you. In order for her to see you as more than a friend, if she does not already, you must show her that you are confident, self-assured, and sexual. Confidence, mystery, and playing hard to get are the key to most any woman's heart. Following these tips will get you out of the friend zone.
Mystery
Women love men who have some mystery about themselves. Do not tell her everything. She does not need to hear about your childhood, or painful memories of your parent's divorce. Be a little more closed off and do not give a lot of detailed information. Do not walk too close to her when somewhere together. Walking too close will give her the impression that you want other people to believe she is with you. Backing off sometimes will have her wondering why and thinking about you in the process.
Disappear sometimes for a few days, spend time with your family and/or friends, and do not call her or see her anywhere. When you do see her next, do not tell her where you have been. Of course, if she keeps asking you about it and seems upset, then tell her you were just hanging out with friends or family.
Confidence
Building self-confidence can be a lot of work, but it is well worth the effort. Confidence is the number one thing that attracts women, not to mention the advantages self-confidence has in the rest of your life. To begin working on your confidence, write down everything wonderful about you. Things such as hard-working, loyal, funny, physically fit, rich, etc., should all be included in your list. Read and re-read this list every morning.
Practice makes perfect. Practice talking to women often. Practicing your communication skills with women will help immensely. You will gain confidence and skills that your friend, and other women, will notice. Once other women start looking at you and becoming interested, this will help your friend to see you as a man and not just a friend.
Playing Hard to Get
Do not cancel plans to run to her side for any reason. Distance yourself. Make yourself a little less available. That is not to say to quit hanging out with her altogether, or to treat her differently.
Make her jealous. Go ahead and look at other girls when the two of you are together. Flirt with other women, buy a woman a drink, comment on a woman's nice butt, but do not be too rude or conspicuous. You do not want her to think that you are a pig, just a man interested in beautiful women.
Here is the most important part of making a woman jealous; make sure that you always say a little something nice to your friend as well. For instance, if you have made a comment about another woman's looks, throw in something like, "You look pretty good yourself today." Do not make saying something like this the center of attention though. After you have said it, be cool and move on as if you did not say anything.
Brook is a relationship and sex expert. Visit her blog at http://snapoint.org/relationsexpert/.
Many guys ask every day, "How do I get of the friend zone?" Okay, if you are in the friend zone, then the girl is feeling exactly the same way, or she is not romantically interested in you at all. If you want out of the friend zone, you will have change the way she sees you. The most important thing is to never tell her how you feel, at least not until she feels the same way about you. In order for her to see you as more than a friend, if she does not already, you must show her that you are confident, self-assured, and sexual. Confidence, mystery, and playing hard to get are the key to most any woman's heart. Following these tips will get you out of the friend zone.
Mystery
Women love men who have some mystery about themselves. Do not tell her everything. She does not need to hear about your childhood, or painful memories of your parent's divorce. Be a little more closed off and do not give a lot of detailed information. Do not walk too close to her when somewhere together. Walking too close will give her the impression that you want other people to believe she is with you. Backing off sometimes will have her wondering why and thinking about you in the process.
Disappear sometimes for a few days, spend time with your family and/or friends, and do not call her or see her anywhere. When you do see her next, do not tell her where you have been. Of course, if she keeps asking you about it and seems upset, then tell her you were just hanging out with friends or family.
Confidence
Building self-confidence can be a lot of work, but it is well worth the effort. Confidence is the number one thing that attracts women, not to mention the advantages self-confidence has in the rest of your life. To begin working on your confidence, write down everything wonderful about you. Things such as hard-working, loyal, funny, physically fit, rich, etc., should all be included in your list. Read and re-read this list every morning.
Practice makes perfect. Practice talking to women often. Practicing your communication skills with women will help immensely. You will gain confidence and skills that your friend, and other women, will notice. Once other women start looking at you and becoming interested, this will help your friend to see you as a man and not just a friend.
Playing Hard to Get
Do not cancel plans to run to her side for any reason. Distance yourself. Make yourself a little less available. That is not to say to quit hanging out with her altogether, or to treat her differently.
Make her jealous. Go ahead and look at other girls when the two of you are together. Flirt with other women, buy a woman a drink, comment on a woman's nice butt, but do not be too rude or conspicuous. You do not want her to think that you are a pig, just a man interested in beautiful women.
Here is the most important part of making a woman jealous; make sure that you always say a little something nice to your friend as well. For instance, if you have made a comment about another woman's looks, throw in something like, "You look pretty good yourself today." Do not make saying something like this the center of attention though. After you have said it, be cool and move on as if you did not say anything.
Brook is a relationship and sex expert. Visit her blog at http://snapoint.org/relationsexpert/.
