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How To Approach A Woman - The Right Mindset For Getting A Girlfriend

ByClaire Geonzon
When you want to learn how to approach a woman in order to find a girlfriend, you've got to work on commitment. You have to commit yourself to the idea of having a girlfriend before you can commit to a specific girl.
'Commitment' is a scary word, but actually, you make commitments every day. You commit to having a friend, going to the gym, meeting for beers, or whatever. Being committed to one person is just another piece of that commitment puzzle. You're going to be committed to her in the same way.
When you can really commit to having a girlfriend, there are a few really cool things that are going to happen. The first is that you're going to quit worrying about whether to approach or hang out with certain girls. You'll just meet women, talk to them, and there's no need to work on your skills. It's not just going out to have fun and get laid.
At this point, you're going to stop worrying about approaching every girl. You'll feel a lot less pressure because you're not approaching girls who aren't girlfriend material anymore. You'll also come across better to women because you know what you're looking for.
When you have a clear, solid idea of what you're looking for, you'll always be more attractive to women. The reason is that you're coming from a place of screening. You're not interested in every girl out there, but only the type of girl that you have in mind. You're looking for girls that you can really spend some time with.
You're going to have more confidence because you have a clear, identifiable goal. That's one of the powerful things about goal setting. When you have a goal, no matter how many times you mess up, you can get back on the horse and ride again. This is because you've set a trajectory; you know where you're trying to go.
Along with this, you've got to accept the fact that as a guy, it's normal and natural to be attracted to other women as well. When you get a girlfriend, no matter how strong your love is, you're still going to feel attraction for other women. Instead of denying this, accept it and know that if you're committed, you'll resist all urges to chase other women. If you want to know how to approach a woman looking for girlfriend material, this is the right mindset that you need.
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Getting a Durable Girlfriend - How to Get Her and Keep Her

ByGary Uranga
If you've found this article you're probably coming from a place in your life where you feel like your life would be "complete" if you just had a girl in it.
You've probably tried a few times with no real success, you maybe have someone 'special' in mind, or you probably have never even tried getting one.
Fear no more!
I've been there and I understand all the frustration that comes from not being able to succeed with girls and I'll share it with you.
Firstly you got to know what getting a girlfriend implies, it implies merging your life with someone else, this means her problems will now sort of become your problems, you will spend a lot more money going out now and you will have to dedicate time to this relationship.
I'm not meaning to be negative here, but rather put thin on perspective if you think that having a girlfriend is going to fix all your problems.
Sharing your life with someone who you really appreciate is great and the experiences shared are really worth it.
Having set that clear, let's get to it!
First: If you don't love yourself no one will. This one can sound kind of harsh but it's true, the first step to getting a durable girlfriend is to learn to love yourself. That's the first thing you got to learn, make it a purpose in your life to work on your self-esteem so that you get more and more of it every day. Get a clear set of boundaries for what you accept and don't accept in your life, find what you think is valuable and have a clear idea of it. You can check my site for more advice on this.
Second: Be involvement-worthy. If you lead an awesome life then you'll be proud to show it to everyone, if you just sit at home and play video games all day then that's not going to be something you're very proud of. So basically, make your life awesome, love it and then welcoming someone into it will be to enhance that experience and not to complete it, then and only then you'll be coming from a place of abundance in good experiences in your life.
Third: Start being who you want to be. In my case this meant to get a solid group of friends, I used to be a loner and I wanted friends, so I got them. It meant to stop having my mom buy me clothes and getting the clothes I wanted (sad, I know). It meant to stop playing video games all day and to start dedicating time to working out and being social. Make the changes that have to be made so that you get the life that you want to have. Workout, get the clothes you want and start the grooming.
Fourth: Start getting experience with girls. If you've never had a girlfriend then you're probably not very experienced with girls. Or maybe you have a lot of female friends (or a few) but you're stuck in the 'friends zone' with them. The friends zone happens because the way your relationship (friendship) developed set you both in a role where you're just friends and there's no attraction or 'sexual tension'. You can only get good at talking with girls by talking with girls. Work the numbers, start putting yourself in situations where you meet lots and lots of new girls, get in abundance with the amount of females that you can meet in your life.
Fifth: Learn the dynamics and start acting upon. Once you have abundance of options in your life and learned how to generate attraction with girls through your experiences you got to learn to lead things and start taking action! Make your move and start getting more and more confidence with it, learn from both rejection and success and keep being abundant.
Sooner than later you'll be finding lots of girls wanting to be your girlfriend and you can just choose! Get those principles down!
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Tips for Getting Out of the Friend Zone

ByBrook Green
Many guys ask every day, "How do I get of the friend zone?" Okay, if you are in the friend zone, then the girl is feeling exactly the same way, or she is not romantically interested in you at all. If you want out of the friend zone, you will have change the way she sees you. The most important thing is to never tell her how you feel, at least not until she feels the same way about you. In order for her to see you as more than a friend, if she does not already, you must show her that you are confident, self-assured, and sexual. Confidence, mystery, and playing hard to get are the key to most any woman's heart. Following these tips will get you out of the friend zone.
Mystery
Women love men who have some mystery about themselves. Do not tell her everything. She does not need to hear about your childhood, or painful memories of your parent's divorce. Be a little more closed off and do not give a lot of detailed information. Do not walk too close to her when somewhere together. Walking too close will give her the impression that you want other people to believe she is with you. Backing off sometimes will have her wondering why and thinking about you in the process.
Disappear sometimes for a few days, spend time with your family and/or friends, and do not call her or see her anywhere. When you do see her next, do not tell her where you have been. Of course, if she keeps asking you about it and seems upset, then tell her you were just hanging out with friends or family.
Confidence
Building self-confidence can be a lot of work, but it is well worth the effort. Confidence is the number one thing that attracts women, not to mention the advantages self-confidence has in the rest of your life. To begin working on your confidence, write down everything wonderful about you. Things such as hard-working, loyal, funny, physically fit, rich, etc., should all be included in your list. Read and re-read this list every morning.
Practice makes perfect. Practice talking to women often. Practicing your communication skills with women will help immensely. You will gain confidence and skills that your friend, and other women, will notice. Once other women start looking at you and becoming interested, this will help your friend to see you as a man and not just a friend.
Playing Hard to Get
Do not cancel plans to run to her side for any reason. Distance yourself. Make yourself a little less available. That is not to say to quit hanging out with her altogether, or to treat her differently.
Make her jealous. Go ahead and look at other girls when the two of you are together. Flirt with other women, buy a woman a drink, comment on a woman's nice butt, but do not be too rude or conspicuous. You do not want her to think that you are a pig, just a man interested in beautiful women.
Here is the most important part of making a woman jealous; make sure that you always say a little something nice to your friend as well. For instance, if you have made a comment about another woman's looks, throw in something like, "You look pretty good yourself today." Do not make saying something like this the center of attention though. After you have said it, be cool and move on as if you did not say anything.
Brook is a relationship and sex expert. Visit her blog at http://snapoint.org/relationsexpert/.