Learn the Successful Dating Tips

ByJon Michael Bennett
Hooking up with pretty girls is intimidating to just about every man with a pulse. But the finesse that it takes to close the deal comes easier to some. Even if you're no hookup artist, you can fake the persona that it takes to routinely score with chicks in nightclubs until it becomes second nature.
Remember, girls aren't at the bar or nightclub looking for a soul mate - they're looking for a casual sex partner. She wants someone she can lust after. To achieve this you must be confident, have some dance moves, dress to impress, and be impeccably groomed. Trim that nose hair.
Look for a certain type of girl to better your chances. When scouting for your next score, you need to base it on more than her body. Analyze her hair, makeup, attire and shoes. You're looking for a girl with high heels, a short skirt or skin-tight dress, makeup and a hairdo that looks like it took hours to achieve. Finding a girl that meets this description is important because she has pulled out every trick in the book in an effort to attract a certain type of man - a playboy. And tonight, that's you.
Make eye contact with her several times and smile. If possible, let her see you interacting with another pretty woman - this will let her know that you're desirable to other girls. Walk over to her, extend your hand, give your best pretty-boy smile and ask her to dance. Only ask her name while you're on the dance floor, and offer her a drink after a song or two. Any sooner and they might pull a drink and run.
Now close the deal. Everyone loves to talk about themselves. Over drinks, gear the conversation towards her. And while she's talking, make appropriate physical contact. Place your hand around her waist or graze her fingers with your own. If she seems receptive, casually place your hand on her knee. Finally, lean in closely to her ear and ask her if she wants to "get out of here." When she accepts, take her hand, walk out of the club and ask if she'd prefer to go to your place or her own.
The cab ride home sets the stage for the night. Sit close to her, touch her thigh or leg, maybe even give her a kiss. This increases the sexual tension and anticipation for what will happen soon.
Picking up chicks in a Nightclub doesn't have to be intimidating. You're likely both there for the same reason - to have a good time. Some girls may only want to dance. But, just as many are seeking a casual hookup, probably more.
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Jon Bennett

ByAlex L Leeson
For those of you who are confused when it comes to the area of picking up and seducing women I have some good news for you - there is one thing, that if focused on correctly, will drastically improve your success with women.
There are so many different aspects to being successful with women, it's sometimes difficult to know where to start. The logical step is the approach. Guys want to know exactly what to say in order to captivate women and get their attention. They also want to know exactly what to say to build attraction. Are you seeing the common theme here? They want lines and techniques. Little do they know lines and routines will not solve their problem.
Here's the secret to attracting women: change your mindset.
If that was a letdown for you then unfortunately you are not ready to really progress when it comes to women and dating. You will eventually, but until you fully believe that it's who you are that attracts women and not just lines and techniques, you will not see the level of success you are capable of.
The first mental adjustment we need to make is about being good enough. Most men don't feel their good enough. They don't think they're in the same league when it comes to beautiful women. I need you to eradicate this belief from your head, now.
I try to view everyone as equal, although this can be quite difficult at times. If I need a confidence boost I will actually put myself above everyone else. Yes it may seem a little egotistical but I don't act like a jerk, I do it in a way that gives me more confidence and energy. To do this I go over in my head all the positive qualities about myself. The list might include things like: my outlook on life, business, friends, intellect, goals, and skills just to name a few. Reminding me of who I am can give me a heightened mental state if I start doubting myself at any point.
The next key to keep in mind is even the best guys don't succeed all the time. If you think the guys that are successful with women are batting 100 you're out of your mind. They fail just as much if not more than your average Joe. Do you know why? Because they put themselves out there. They know nothing can be lost by approaching or meeting new people. When things don't go their way they don't view it as failure or rejection, they view it as a learning experience.
This point alone is enough to help motivate a lot of the guys I've worked with. My question for you now is, do you think these guys care? After a while you start to view interactions as feedback. You're not scared or nervous, you're excited about the people you could meet and the relationships you could form.
The last point I want to make is regarding identity. When you have a strong identity you will begin to see things differently. You will be grounded in your beliefs and have a clear idea of what you'll tolerate and what you won't. This is important when it comes to picking up and attracting women. A lot of guys will let women walk all over them. Guys will bend and break their own rules to accommodate a beautiful woman. If you stop doing this you will notice a change in how people act around you. You may encounter some initial resistance at first but after a while people will start to accept that you're not a push over.
I want you to take a second and really think about where the foundation of success lies when it comes to attracting women. You will quickly realize it's not in a magic line or a special routines. It lies in your mindset and the confidence you have in yourself.
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