Learn the Successful Dating Tips

ByAlex L Leeson
For those of you who are confused when it comes to the area of picking up and seducing women I have some good news for you - there is one thing, that if focused on correctly, will drastically improve your success with women.
There are so many different aspects to being successful with women, it's sometimes difficult to know where to start. The logical step is the approach. Guys want to know exactly what to say in order to captivate women and get their attention. They also want to know exactly what to say to build attraction. Are you seeing the common theme here? They want lines and techniques. Little do they know lines and routines will not solve their problem.
Here's the secret to attracting women: change your mindset.
If that was a letdown for you then unfortunately you are not ready to really progress when it comes to women and dating. You will eventually, but until you fully believe that it's who you are that attracts women and not just lines and techniques, you will not see the level of success you are capable of.
The first mental adjustment we need to make is about being good enough. Most men don't feel their good enough. They don't think they're in the same league when it comes to beautiful women. I need you to eradicate this belief from your head, now.
I try to view everyone as equal, although this can be quite difficult at times. If I need a confidence boost I will actually put myself above everyone else. Yes it may seem a little egotistical but I don't act like a jerk, I do it in a way that gives me more confidence and energy. To do this I go over in my head all the positive qualities about myself. The list might include things like: my outlook on life, business, friends, intellect, goals, and skills just to name a few. Reminding me of who I am can give me a heightened mental state if I start doubting myself at any point.
The next key to keep in mind is even the best guys don't succeed all the time. If you think the guys that are successful with women are batting 100 you're out of your mind. They fail just as much if not more than your average Joe. Do you know why? Because they put themselves out there. They know nothing can be lost by approaching or meeting new people. When things don't go their way they don't view it as failure or rejection, they view it as a learning experience.
This point alone is enough to help motivate a lot of the guys I've worked with. My question for you now is, do you think these guys care? After a while you start to view interactions as feedback. You're not scared or nervous, you're excited about the people you could meet and the relationships you could form.
The last point I want to make is regarding identity. When you have a strong identity you will begin to see things differently. You will be grounded in your beliefs and have a clear idea of what you'll tolerate and what you won't. This is important when it comes to picking up and attracting women. A lot of guys will let women walk all over them. Guys will bend and break their own rules to accommodate a beautiful woman. If you stop doing this you will notice a change in how people act around you. You may encounter some initial resistance at first but after a while people will start to accept that you're not a push over.
I want you to take a second and really think about where the foundation of success lies when it comes to attracting women. You will quickly realize it's not in a magic line or a special routines. It lies in your mindset and the confidence you have in yourself.
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ByAnna Houck
Who else is thinking about starting the New Year with a RED hot romance? Are you single, Jewish and trying to figure out the best way to meet other single Jews? Maybe you've considered lots of mainstream general online dating sites, or even small "niche" Jewish community sites that cater to your specific religious affiliation? (e.g. - there are now sites for super religious Jews, Reform Jews, and just about every other possible permutation as well)
I'm going to give you the easiest way to truly find your match if you are super serious about online dating, and I'm also going to tell you WHY this strategy is the best to boot. Curious to know why? Continue reading as we take a closer look below.
Filed Under: My Confession
The truth is, I've belonged to just about every dating site under the sun at one point or another. And, as someone in my mid 30's at this point, it's grown increasingly important to me to meet someone who FITS at least MOST of my primary priorities.
And to be TOTALLY honest with you, while I've dated people from all religions, races and ethnicities, as I get older... it just is MORE important to me than ever before, to marry someone who shares my faith. Who shares in my culture, and the traditions, and backgrounds of my family and close friends.
What I found myself doing on the mainstream dating sites, the ones that everyone belongs to, was actually searching for other Jews, simply because that has become super important to me.
And of course, out of hundreds of thousands of members... we were only a very small percentage of the whole, meaning the chances of meeting my potential perfect partner, percentage wise... was not great.
Then I went the OPPOSITE route, and joined the super small Jewish dating sites that catered to my geographical area, or even to the branch of Judaism I follow.
This time, the results were FAR too small to really have a good opportunity to meet my match.
Finally, I decided to join the most mainstream Jewish dating site, with hundreds of thousands of members, and thousands of testimonials, success stories and couples to finally had found love.
The reason I went this route....even though I had resisted it for a long while was simple!
Both of my sisters fell in love with men they met on this site. (and now my first niece as well!)
My TOP recommendation for people looking to fall in love online, AND who are Jewish like me?
Go out OFTEN. Say YES, even when saying no is easier. (even if you don't think the person on the other end is going to be a love connection, I truly have made some great friends, and had some great adventures with people I knew would NOT be a romantic match)
Keep it light. Don't write your life story on your profile... and don't use bad cliches, or appear to take yourself too seriously. I've found that being FUNNY is the best way to attract other cool people, and not scaring away others by being super serious about "my match."
Don't use professional pictures. Why? Because unless you walk around with professional lighting and a stylist, you are NOT reflecting the "you" that he or she is going to meet when you first say Hi. Be real. That's really the key to everything in life, and when it comes to meeting others online, being true to who you are is the key to finding your perfect match.
Lastly... have fun! Dating sites, especially those that cater to small niches (like Jewish dating) have truly changed the landscape of the relationship space. A Rabbi told me last year that HALF of his marriages now are those that emanated from an online meeting... as that percentage is ONLY going to go up as they're popularity continues to rise!
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